It's Friday. You know wanna!
I CONFESS
My feelings have been hurt over something pretty stupid.
Yet, I can't get over it.
I CONFESS
Being told that you are a negative person hurts.
And that they are sad for you because you are not happy.
When in fact, I'm the most happiest I've been in over a year.
I CONFESS
For a person that struggles with depression and friend issues, this is a low blow.
I CONFESS
I live with my heart on my sleeve.
I speak my mind.
I'm blunt.
I don't know how to beat around the bush.
I speak up when I disagree with someone, hopefully in a tasteful and non-mean way.
I CONFESS
I should have cut this person from my life a long time ago, but held on because I didn't want to hurt their feelings, or my husbands, because he was friends with this person spouse.
I CONFESS
I share everything, the good and the bad.
I don't like those blogs, Mormon or not, that are all happy all the time.
Perfect house, kids, activities, friends, clothes, ect.
I keep it real.
How is that being negative?
I CONFESS
I don't mind people disagreeing with me. And I won't delete you if you are. Just be nice.
I CONFESS
I need to blog about my son's 3rd birthday. But hate messing with uploading pictures. LOL!
I should do that this weekend.
EDIT - after I got over feeling sorry for myself, I blogged about it! Check out how cute my kid is!
EDIT - after I got over feeling sorry for myself, I blogged about it! Check out how cute my kid is!
I CONFESS
I get my feelings hurt easily.
I act all tough, but I'm not.
I CONFESS
That I need friend.
I'm sad, I know.
What's on your mind? Spill it!
And link up with Mamarazzi!
11 comments:
Awwww! :(
Well. I confessed I called the dog a d*ckhead this week, so you can see the low that I'm riding right now. lol
It does hurt when a friends does or says something that hurts your feelings. Big hugs to you.
Sara - I hear you! I was thinking just yesterday while I was blog hopping, "These people can't be perfectly happy 100% of the time like they make themselves out to be, can they??" I'm struggling with thoughts of happy myself - I'm trying really hard to not be such a negative Nancy because I know that I am.
It's ok to be real - it makes you more huamn. :)
I hope you're able to work through this, even if it means giving a friend the boot.
This struck a chord with me... this last few months I have struggled with wearing my heart on my sleeve and feeling sort of abandoned by the friends I thought would be there for everything...
I have a friend that always hurts my feelings. Maybe I should break up with her. I'm kinda a wuss around her. She intimidates me.
I have had a hard time being truly happy, but blogging has helped--just put what you feel out there. Those that matter won't run away.
AWE! I'm sorry.
I think you're a very happy positive person.
I think friends that hurt your feelings suck. So, I say cut her. It's not worth getting your feelings hurt.
Hope you have a good weekend.
You could have been describing me! I tell it like it is! I can't and won't keep my feelings bottled inside, good or bad. I swear you were talking about me.
As for the people who are "happy" all the time... they live a lie. NO ONE is happy all the time! They want everyone to think their lives are perfect, but that's because they are some of the unhappiest most insecure people in the world.
People are different. Some display more positive energy than others. It's just the way it is. I wish people would accept others for who they are.
I wonder who these people are that hurt your feelings. Hope it's not me - I don't think I say things that are offensive. And, of all the blogs I seriously appreciate yours the most because of "the good, the bad, and the ugly." Again, your uniqueness shows through is this arena - which is something you should be very proud of and feel great about I think!
I'm sorry you were hurt :( But I, for one, am glad you're open and honest.
Well that just sucks! People who say things to hurt people are probably really unhappy people to begin with. You need to really evaluate what you put into that friendship. If it is all you that is giving then pull back & just see what happens when you put some space between you. I've had way too many a friend like that & it just brings you down.
You are right, no one is happy 100% of the time, they just aren't! I love the keep it real people. Those are the people that people can relate to, feel comfortable building a relationship with.
You keep being you, I think you are pretty great the way you are!!! :)
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